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27 Oct 2008

New mom - Feeding is all over the place!
Hi,

I' m a new mom with an almost-1 month old baby. When I started breast feeding, it worked really well - doing 15 mins per breast - burping, then off to bed.
Now that the fatigue has set in &  he had a growth spurt - the breast milk wasn' t enough &  he cried at the breast, so I' ve started doing formula top-ups.
Sometimes he takes forever to settle after a feed &  I wonder if he' s not getting enough. This being said, he' s put on more than average when I' ve taken him to get weighed - but the feeding keeps changing as my breast milk seems less &  the feeds don' t feel consistent so I don' t know how he' s doing weight-wise from week to week.

My problem is - I never know how much he' s getting (common problem I know). What I do is give about 20 mins time on the breasts (both) - then I give half the recommended formula for his age - so my strategy has been half-breast milk, half-formula for every feed to make sure he gets enough. How do you know when he' s finished with the formula top-up? If I keep putting the teat in his mouth, he' ll drink!
Sometimes when my breasts feel very empty I give the full amount of formula for his age at a feed &  no breast. I think they' re empty because when I squeeze the nipple, hardly anything comes out - but when I express it works better (using the Medela electric).

I' m getting tired as feeds take forever &  increase his awake time to do the bottle &  breast and I also need to factor some stimulation time in that short window. Is it possible to express the milk &  feed him via the bottle only? I feel quite guilty about this as I know that there is wonderful bonding during breastfeeding. Also, is it possible to mix breastmilk &  formula together in one bottle &  how long can you keep it in the fridge and at room temp like that?

I apologise for the very long question &  thank you in advance!
Regards,
Confused
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childhood diseases
paediatrician

01 Jan 0001

I know that you have written an excellent account of your problem here, but we have a special breast feeding forum on Health24. You should be able to get the right advice and support there.If it turns out that you are unable to breast feed your baby after really trying so hard, you should not feel at all guilty about changing to one of the formulas.
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