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07 Nov 2013

I'm not straight. I'm not gay. But I'm also no bi...
I am a young male in my twenties with a very difficult problem. I find women very attractive and arousing. I like to play with their breasts, kiss them, but I cannot get myself to have sex with woman - I get turned off by a vagina. Here's where it gets strange. I also find men attractive, but in a different way. While the idea of kissing or loving another man is a turn-off, I do like the idea of playing with another man's penis. I like discovering different shapes and sizes of penises, and finding out which men are circumcised. However, that's where it stops, anal sex with a man or woman does not work for me. Why am I not normal? What can I do to change this?
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