I am a young male in my twenties with a very difficult problem. I find women very attractive and arousing. I like to play with their breasts, kiss them, but I cannot get myself to have sex with woman - I get turned off by a vagina. Here's where it gets strange. I also find men attractive, but in a different way. While the idea of kissing or loving another man is a turn-off, I do like the idea of playing with another man's penis. I like discovering different shapes and sizes of penises, and finding out which men are circumcised. However, that's where it stops, anal sex with a man or woman does not work for me. Why am I not normal? What can I do to change this?