My husband is 32 years old and seems to have no interest in sex. If I'm lucky I can expect once a month or once every two months, This bothers me. I am 30 and would LOVE a healthy sex life. What can I do to get sex more frequently? Why isn't it bothering him? I'm not overweight or anything, I have a lovely figure. Isn't it supposed to get sore for men if they go without sex for too long? Should I worry that he's having an affair?