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28 Oct 2009

always horny
hi,
doing a great job here.
I am a 32 year old wife and mom to three young kids.My hubby does' nt touch me at all,we hardly have sex,its almost as if he' s having it somewhere else or masturbating.Am not proud of it and don' t judge me but i recently started seeing someone and the sex is fantastic,we can' t see each other often cos'  he' s also married.My point is the sex am having with this person is sooo good,thats all i ever think about,sex is what occupies my mind like 90% of the time and am always horny.i need answers pls,why my hubby refuses to have sex with me?????
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sexologist

01 Jan 0001

It is quite common that if the food at home is not sufficient that you find other ways and means to get it – take outs is one way. The affair is obviously providing you with some gratification, but does not address the concerns and lack of sexual intimacy between you and your husband. Your current solution furthermore is not constructive for you, your lover, your family and his family in the long run. If you want your relationship with your husband to change the assistance of a psychologist should be called in. The lack of sexual intimacy could have several reasons and should be explored. You as a couple should determine how you can or want to move forward.

You are also welcome to contact our helpline – 0860100262 where you could be assisted to get in touch with a therapist as close a possible to you.

Furthermore you are welcome to visit the following website for any more sexual health information and assignments that could be helpful: www.sexualhealth.co.za

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