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09 Mar 2003

Am I in trouble?
Hi. I just have a quick question. I was at a party 3 weeks ago. We went skinny dipping and afterwards we lay on the ground looking at the stars. Just then a girl sat over me and placed my willy in her mouth. Just for a couple of seconds, before I threw her off (because I have a girlfriend).

I just found out that she was a prositute that was hired to liven up the party. I am at any risk for catching a STD? Can I get AIDS or Herpes?

I know this sounds like a silly question but I am worried now.

Regards,
Kassie
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01 Jan 0001

I think we have reached a sad stage when we have to "hire sexworkers to liven up parties", but that a side, sexworkers are not disease carrying vectors, any women that tries to perform oral sex on you will potentially be carrying the same risk.

Oral Sex is not considered safe sex:
Like all sexual activity, oral sex carries risk, particularly when one partner or the other is known to be infected with HIV, when either partner’s HIV status is not known, and / or when one or the other partner is not monogamous or injects drugs. Numerous studies have demonstrated that oral sex can result in the transmission of HIV and other sexually transmitted infections (STI’s). Abstaining from oral, anal and vaginal sex all together or having sex only with a mutually monogamous, uninfected partner are the only ways that individuals can be completely protected from the transmission of HIV.

Oral sex is a common practice:
Oral sex involves giving or receiving oral stimulation (i.e. sucking or licking) to the penis, the vagina and / or the anus. Fellatio is the technical term used to describe oral contact with the penis. Cunnilingus is the technical term which describes oral – vaginal sex. Anilingus (sometimes called “rimming”) refers to oral – anal contact. Studies indicate that oral sex is commonly practised by sexually active male – female and same – gender couples of various ages, including adolescents. Although there are only limited national data about how often adolescents engage in oral sex, some data suggest that many adolescents who engage in oral sex do not consider it to be sex; therefore they may use oral sex as an option to experience sex while still, in their minds, remaining abstinent. Moreover, many consider oral sex to be safe or no risk sexual practice. In a recent national survey of teens conducted for The Kaiser Foundation, 26% of sexually active 15 to 17 year olds surveyed responded that one “cannot become infected from HIV by having unprotected oral sex”, and an additional 15% didn’t know whether or not one could become infected in that manner.

Oral sex and the risk of HIV transmission:
The risk of HIV transmission from an infected partner through oral sex is much smaller than the risk of HIV transmission from anal or vaginal sex. Because of this, measuring the exact risk of HIV transmission as a result of oral sex is very difficult. In addition, since most sexually active individuals practice oral sex in addition to other forms of sex, such as vaginal and / or anal sex, when transmission occurs, it is difficult to determine whether or not it occurred as a result of oral sex or other more risky sexual activities. Finally, several co – factors can increase the risk of HIV transmission through oral sex, including: oral ulcers, bleeding gums, genital sores and the presence of other STI’s.

When scientists describe the risk of transmitting an infectious disease, like HIV, the term “theoretical risk” is often used. Very simple, “theoretical risk” means that passing an infection from one person to another is possible, even though there may not yet be any actual documented cases. “Theoretical risk” is not the same as likelihood. In other words, stating that HIV infection is “theoretically possible” does not necessarily mean it is likely to happen – only that it might. Documented risk, on the other hand, is used to describe transmission that has actually occurred, been investigated and documented in the scientific literature.



Theoretical and documented risk of HIV transmission during oral – penile contact Theoretical and documented risk of HIV transmission during oral – vaginal contact Theoretical and documented risk of HIV transmission during oral – anal contact
Theoretical:In fellatio, there is a theoretical risk of transmission for the receptive partner (the person who is sucking) because infected pre-ejaculate (pre-cum)fluid or semen can get into the mouth. For the insertive partner (the person who is being sucked), there is a theoretical risk of infection because infected blood from a partner’s bleeding gums or an open sore could come in contact with a scratch, cut, or sore on the penis. Theoretical:Cunnilingus carries a theoretical risk of HIV transmission for the insertive partner (the person who is licking or sucking the vaginal area) because infected vaginal fluids and blood can get into the mouth. (This includes, but is not limited to, menstrual blood). Likewise, there is a theoretical risk of HIV transmission during cunnilingus for the receptive partner (the person who is having her vagina licked or sucked) if infected blood from oral sores or bleeding gums comes in contact with vulvar or vaginal cuts or sores. Theoretical:Anilingus carries a theoretical risk of transmission for the insertive partner (the person who is licking or sucking the anus) if there is exposure to infected blood, either through bloody faecal matter (bodily waste) or cuts / sores in the anal area. Anilingus carries a theoretical risk to the receptive partner (the person who is being licked/ sucked) if infected blood in saliva comes in contact with anal/ rectal lining.
Documented:Although the risk is many times smaller than anal or vaginal sex, HIV has been transmitted to receptive partners through fellatio, even in cases when insertive partners didn’t ejaculate (‘cum”). Documented:The risk of HIV transmission during cunnilingus is extremely low compared to vaginal and anal sex. However, there have been a few cases of HIV transmission most likely resulting from oral – vaginal sex. Documented:There has been one published case of HIV transmission associated with oral – anal sexual contact.

Other STI’s can also be transmitted from oral sex:
Scientists have documented a number of other sexually transmitted diseases that have also been transmitted through oral sex. Herpes, syphilis, gonorrhoea, genital warts (HPV), intestinal parasites and hepatitis A are examples of STI’s which can be transmitted during oral sex with an infected partner.

Reducing the risk of HIV transmission through oral sex:
The consequences of HIV infection are life – long, life – threatening and extremely serious. You can lower any already low risk of getting HIV from oral sex by using latex condoms each and every time. For cunnilingus or anilingus, plastic food wrap, a condom cut open, or a dental dam can serve as a physical barrier to prevent transmission of HIV and many other STI’s. Because anal and vaginal sex are much riskier and because most individuals who engage in unprotected (i.e. without a condom) oral sex also engage in unprotected anal and / or vaginal sex, the exact proportion of HIV infections attributable to oral sex alone is unknown, but is likely to be very small. This has led some people to believe that oral sex is completely safe. It is not.

Dr Elna McIntosh



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