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19 Jul 2005

Am i wasting my time?
Last year December my b/f went on holiday for a whole month, over the weekend i found out that he only went for one week to the place where he was suppose to be, the rest of his holiday he spent some place else. I did'nt have time to confront him about this bcause there were other people with us and later that evening we all went out together. While we were at this place he greeted a girl and talked to her for a while for the rest of the evening he stood next to me and looking at this women the whole evening i also noticed that she was looking back. Where ever she would move his eyes would follow i asked him about this but he was denying i got upset and left without telling him. He phoned me and asked why i left and said that he did'nt do anything wrong and asked wether i'm using this bcause i want to break up with him i answerd maybe. That was the last time we spoke, i'm normally not a jealous person and might have overreacted, i wanted to phone him and apologise for my behaviour that Friday evening but realised that i was'nt wrong and the fact that he lied to me about his holiday makes me furious. I don't know what to do this relationship frustrates the hell out of me, he is not someone who talks a lot and i have a problem confronting people. What am i to do i love this man and i know he will come back to me and act as if nothing happened but i don't want that to happen i want to talk about everything that's wrong in this relationship but don't know how to start. I have a tendency of taking the easy way out and that is break-up for me i want to fight for this relationship but don't know how. Am i wasting my time with this relationship?
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01 Jan 0001

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