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05 Dec 2005

Best friend dissed me Again
I have known this guy for 7 years and we dated 5 years out of the seven and recently he has decided to move on and venture out seeking friendships elsewhere. The problem is he has become really close to my family and especiall my cousins and is there practically 24/7. He has even been introduced to another chick and told me that all he wants from her is a friendship but it doesn't seem that way. I began dating someone else but never forgot him and the friendship. What do I do. He has developed such a harsh attitude and I tried telling him off because I hurt too much and my boyfriend believes that I should give him space- my friend and then before I know it he will turn around and want to be friends again. I just wish it would'nt hurt so much. Last year something simular happened where we were together and he cheated on me- sexually and refused to tell me though I expected it. He told me how that when we were together I would go kiss other guys and yet nothing I feel can add or even come close to what he did to me. I went on a two week depression until I met someone who made it his mission to have me smile again. But then when my best friend came to apologize I just forgave him. Now I am alone with just my boyfriend and other friends I meet along the way to where I am today but none of them can add up to the friendship I had with my so called bestfriend. We went through so much together and even pledged to get married. His family calls me part of the family and I think ultimately I am afraid of loosing him and all the plans we made. I just can't say good bye really I fear. I wish I could just pack up all the memories and move on completely. I am really happy with my recent reltionship which is only my second serious relationship but I refuse to search again after this one cause I have matured so much in the time I meet my new boyfriend and learn't to actually open up to various possiblities.Please help.
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