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20 Feb 2013

Compatibility or other problem ?
Hi There

My current girlfriend does not feel as warm as the previous girlfriends down there. The body temperature is normal and the cake is not loose at all. I have to struggle to get maximum friction in order to come and if not so after a long time i get soft without coming. With my other sex partners i had to always fight stopping ejaculation (which i master) to proplong the session and never had a problem to cum. We are both perfect in all aspects of the relationship, she has nice sexy body, boobs, personality and very romantic. She always does her part in all our encounters. i am also fit, drink moderately and not smoking, never had problem with ED in the past.
Why do i have to struggle to come and sometimes go soft ? Is it true that some women are a bit cold down there ?