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14 Jun 2011

Conflicting thoughts &amp  thinking process
I''m in a relationship but recently we just end up bring more harm to each other than what our feelings are telling us.When there is a problem our view on the issue is totally different &  we think differently.Even when emails are sent there is at times misunderstanding which causes alot of heartache &  we both go into a tizz with just telling each other off.At times it seems there is no way forward with the way we think ,understand &  interact with each other.There are however other factors to this relationship ,we both work together in the same office &  we do have spouses.

Please advise us what is the way forward or are we just making each others life a nightmare?

Thanks
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

Anne makes good sense.
If you both have spouses, you are both maried, and being unfaihful to your spouses, which is a BAD thing, and unkind to innocents. And if this relationship is so unsatisfying and such hard work - why on earth do you continue to pursue it ?
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