recently me and my bf of 9yrs broke up i found out he cheated.he has been having this relationship wth this person for i dnt knw how long,when i confrnt him abt it he cant give me any straight answrs he jst says i wont understand leaving me wth mre qstn thn answrs..he says he cares 4 me but how can u live a double life and still say u care abt the othr person..i askd him 2 leave whn i startd notecing the changes coz i didnt wnt him jst 2 stay 4 our child sack...now his lft and im feeling used,insecure and extreamly unhappy wht do i do 2 get ova this betrayal