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15 Jul 2005

Please could some one help me...
Im a lady, me and my husband makes love every nights, but last night he stoped and said he cant take it anymore for i dont always get an orgasm while we make love but when he stimilates my clitoris then i only get an orgasm. And he gets offended for he says he feels guilty... Is their something wrong with me or are there alot of women like myself. I told him that i still enjoy us making love and dont need to get an orgasm. Am i wrong or am i right... Please what can i do...

Kind Regards...

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Urology guest expert

01 Jan 0001

Dear Helpless,
You are completely right. It is very important to know each other and to be able to express your feelings in a relationship and marriage.
If you are unsuccessful in solving your problems, you could get help from a professional. There are doctors who specialize in sexual problems. An easy way to reach them is through the South African Sexual Health Association. They have a toll-free number: 0860 100 262.
The information provided does not constitute a diagnosis of your condition. You should consult a medical practitioner or other appropriate health care professional for a physical examination, diagnosis and formal advice. Health24 and the expert accept no responsibility or liability for any damage or personal harm you may suffer resulting from making use of this content.
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