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03 Dec 2005

Egskeiding blues
Hallo, ek is nou 3 maande geskei. Soms gaan dit goed, soms minder goed. Daar is dae wat ek jammer is vir my ex, en dan is daar dae wat ek hom wil vermoor. Hy het oor die kleurgrens verhoudings gehad, my gedurig verwyt dat ek verhoudings het. Na ons egskeiding was ek baie rustig maar het intussen iemand ontmoet. My ex was baie aaklig toe ek hom daarvan vertel en het my uitgeskel vir alles wat sleg is. Hy het intussen tyd ook 'n ander metgesel gekry, hy verkies net dat ek alleen is. Hy wil ook aansoek doen om vermindering van die kinders se onderhoud, en wil alweer baklei oor toesig en beheer van die kinders. Raad asb om die situasie te hanteer. Dankie
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

Sounds like a rather normal response to divorce, on your side. But your Ex isn't enough opf an ex --- it's none of his business WHAT you do or who you see, and he shouldn't even have the opportunity to know about that or to discuss it with you. That's what Ex is supposed to mean. I don't know what sort of decision the court made in the separation / divorce doscuments about custody and visitation rights, but especially if you have custody then again it's none of his business how you choose to raise your children, and again he should not have any op[portunity to argue about it.
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