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20 Feb 2009

Ex girlfriend
My girlfriend broke up with me 4 months ago.She needs to concentrate on her studies.We use to text eachother frequintly to stay in touch.She said shell need all teh support she can get.Now we dont speak at all.Wehn we do we fight about silly things.I feel very depressed cause i feel she does not need me or my support anymore.We said we can try again when her studies is over. Here i am sitting and waiting for her but now i heard from one of our friends that she was at a party with her previous ex getting very cozy! I must say i feel very depressed about that!I did not confront her cause she will probably tell me we dont go out anymore so she can do what she wants. I really do still love her. Which at this point i wish i could just move on. I mean, why tell me we can try again if she does things like that.

Now i dont go out and i work myself to death so that i can forget about this.But it does not help.I know its a state of mind but if it does not get resolve soon ill keep doing this.Being depressed sucks.Everybody knows that.

Can someone pls explain this to me? Yes i know plenty fish in the sea.But this is my fish. We where great together!! What must i do.
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

SHE BROKE UP WITH YOU. This is probably lucky for you. Leave her behind, concentrate on your studies and move on. DON'T stay in touch, stop texting, and let her sort out her own life, while you sort out yours
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