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22 Aug 2011

ex wife causing havoc
Hi Doc,
MY boyfriend is having a tough time with his ex wife, she has met someone else recently and has been telling him that the kids now prefer the new boyfriend and they asking why he doesnt come and see them as often as he should. He sees them every alternate weekend and takes them to school everymorning and phones them every night. What advise can you help with ?
he now has high blood pressure and she told him she hopes he has a heart attack !!! he is not a very strong person and i would like to intervene but i do not want to make it any worse then it already is.
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

The ex sounds like a nasty and vindictive creature, and her new boyfriend is likely to have trouble with her. It sounds as though he spends more time with his kids than most divorced men manage to do. How often does she imagine he SHOULD see them ? Or is this a ploy to try to force him to get back with her ?
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