Ask an expert
Question

22 Feb 2003

Extremely URGENT response needed, PLEASE!!!
Hi,
I have gotten myself into a really bad situation. A guy kissed me a few nights ago, and i really feel so guilty about it. The reason is because i have a boyfriend whom i have never cheated on. I dont see this as my fault totally as we were both drunk, i feel i was taken advantage of and i dont think this guy knew i am in a relationship. I have no feelings at all for this guy who kissed me. I love my boyfriend more than anything and i dont want to loose him! i know he loves me so much and trusts me, but i'm scared he will have doubts about wheather i'm telling the truth or not. I have never lied or been dishonest before. the thing is his sister knows(they r very close) about this and said that if i dont tell her brother what happend, then she will, Which i really dont want. I am so nervous about what the out come of this may be ie: i dont know how my bf will react. So i have to tell him, i wanted to do it in person when i see him in a week, but i dont want his sister to tell him about it before me. So i'm going to have to tell him asap ie: today. I dont know where to start, and how to tell him. If anyone has been thru a similar thing as the hell i am going thru, PLEASE respond to this ASAP. I need your help!! thanks.
Answer 402 views
Expert
CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

Dear Terry,
Maybe other readers have more experience at dealing with this sort of situation than I ! The sister sounds somewhat spiteful. But suely if the situation was as you describe, he would understand what happened ?
It also shows that some of the side-effects of driking and letting oneself get drunk, can be more than you expect.
And generally, in law, if you choose to get drunk, then you are held to be responsible for whatever you do while drunk. Maybe they need a Dont Drink and Kiss campaign ?
The information provided does not constitute a diagnosis of your condition. You should consult a medical practitioner or other appropriate health care professional for a physical examination, diagnosis and formal advice. Health24 and the expert accept no responsibility or liability for any damage or personal harm you may suffer resulting from making use of this content.
Voting Booth
Have you entered our Health of the Nation survey?
Please select an option Oops! Something went wrong, please try again later.
Results
Yes
34% - 9269 votes
No
66% - 17861 votes
Vote