Gents, what''s going on? The FB rules are going all over the place. All of a sudden ''who is that guy I saw you with'' and ''what''s your shoe size'' and ''come and hang with me and my friends'' and ''come over let me cook for you'' . Last time I checked, such things were completely outside the FB scope. There now seems to be a horrid new grey area - a guy who behaves outside of FB scope - yet DOES NOT want you as his girlfriend. Why are the lines blurred, have I missed sth? If you don''t want her as your girlfriend why ask her to come and meet your boys?