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15 Dec 2004

He is driving me insane ...help
How can I get rid of my ex while I have kids with him. He has cheated on me throughout my marriage, he has beaten me up a few times even after we divorced, he verbally abuses me up to this day. He accuses me of being with different men ever since we divorced. He sms me all the time. He can never keep the kids a full weekend he always needs to do other things. This weekend he planned on going away while it is his weekend with the kids. He demands that I keep the kids even though they have spent the last three weekends with me. Now he is so abusive towards me coz I told him that I'm also away and cannot keep the kids. his family doesnt help out with the kids either.

This is all bringing me so down.........how can I deal with all of this..am I being unfair....please help
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

Hi, I'm guessing this must be a Carol2, and not our regular Carol. What you do with your life after the divorce is none of his business. Get an interdict to prevent him from harrassing you in any way, and let him go to jail if he ever breaks its rules. And call Powa for specific local advice and support.
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