Congratulations nikita ! Brilliant progres --- well done. Whatever nasty things they say can only hurt you if you decide that it's worth allowing them that privilege, and they haven't earned it. And Peta puts it perfectly ( well done, too, Peta ) ---even down to her famous impersonation of Clark Gable as Rhett Butler in Gone With the Wind ! Both the title of a major classic movie ( just out in a special edition on DVD ) And a good description of where nasty relatives ought to be !