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11 Jul 2005

i have a problem each day when i'm at home i want to wank and it's as if a person another person takes over and then i go on the internet and go on gay sites and wank over men and when my sperm comes out i don't realise what i've done

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teen expert

01 Jan 0001


it sounds as if you are at a point where you are exploring your sexual identity, and masturbation is a very normal part of this. You don't have to do anything other than be yourself, and allow yourself time to understand yourself sexually.

If you have concerns about being gay a good organisation to contact is the Triangle Project based in Cape Town. Their website is

Try not to worry, you are doing anything unsafe or damaging to yourself by trying to work out who you are
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