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10 Jun 2011

life is bad
I''m involved with a women who has mentally abused me.I have decided enough is enough however she found out today she is pregnant.I hate her guts and don''t want to be with her.please help
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

If she was abusive and cruel, why did you allow the situation to develop that enabled her to become pregnant ? ( presumably by you ? ) Is it possible that contraception was being used, or you believed it to be so, and she may have manipulated that so that a pregnancy could entrap you ? Just a thought. But there is no advantage to you or the coming child, to stay with a truly abusive woman ( if, indeed she is thus ). Maybe a proper but calm and mature discussion with the aid of a couples counsellor, is in order so you may both better understand what has been happenin, what is happening, and what may yet happen, and what is best for everyone.
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