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24 Nov 2013

my husbands fetish
Hello, my husband of more than 10 years has developed some fetish about shaving his pubes, I have tried to ignore it, but have told him I find it gay, but he has now shaved bald and just left a little landing strip, similar to what woman do, he has also tried on my panties, and when confronted, he said its not a gay thing, its just fun, and he wants me to accept it, but although he is a wonderful manly man, this side of him has come out recently, and I find it quite disturbing, I have threatened to leave him should this continue, but he is such a wonderful husband and father, and we have so much fun together, I do admit that my sex drive is not at all what it used to be, but I seldom decline him, I just am n ot that interested in the long forplay and toys etc that he used to be so into, but sex I give him almost whenever he wants, but this girly thing that he is doing now needs professional help, and its something he is not prepared to do, and would never tell anyone, tha in itself proves that his behaviour is wrong. I have also caught him masturbating, and he has wanted to give me oral sex after he has ejaculated, now men are generally disgusted with the taste of semen, but it seems to turn him on, sorry for been so long winded, but I actually dont know what to do, but I do know that I am not having some pubic trimmed or shaved man in my bed, especially if he thinks that he will come to bed in panties, I want to threaten him now, that if he doesnt get help, that I will tell his friends, maybe just before they go off to rugby or hunting together, but I love him very much and dont want to push him away, any advise pleeeeeese