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22 Jul 2010

nervous to live together..
after many years of waiting, i have finally met a wonderful man, we are engaged and having a baby in a month. We have just bought a cute house together but somehow i am terrified of moving in permanently.. have never lived with anyone (even at 40) and am scared i won''t have space and time to myself anymore. Fear he will get bored and restless..
tho i know he loves me dearly and i him, how does one adapt to living with someone else after so long of being a free agent?!
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01 Jan 0001

It sounds awfully sudden, the way you describe it, though maybe it wasn't actually so. For anyone thoughtful, especially if you have had quite a number of years getting used to living on your on and needing only to satisfy yourself, it can be a bit worrying to wonder how to get used to living with aother person ( soon to be two other people !) but this is something the pair of you can work out together without any major problem being necessary,
Maybe one of the ket ingredients is to be pleasantly frank with each other and TALK about any problems or annoyances what turn up, rather than keepin g quiet about something until it gows into a much biger problem than it needs to be
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