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20 Jul 2010

no sex
i have been maried now for 12 years,we have two kids who we loved making.lol. we go to gym and she has lost a lot of weight about 27 kgs she is looking very very good i must say,the only problem is ,theare is very little intimacy sex i think if we do it once a month its alot, we do not realy argueand we do get along,but for some reason that deprtment seems to be closed to me ,i have ased why ,but she changes the subject and tells me i'm blowing things out of perportion.i feel that her responce is unreasnable and i olso tell her so.but yea still no luck<br><br>what sould i do eny idees?<br><br>i have done a cupple of things that i figuerd would help like cooking and cleaning and bathing the children and house work in general ,i have tryied to romance her with candles and dinner<br> but thears nouthing<br><br>i do love my wife so much i could never be unfathfull ,so i need to know ,is the rest of my life going to be sexless..<br><br>eny Idees ?
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01 Jan 0001

it may be best to discuss your need for increased intimacy as a couple in therapy. the therapist will be able to identify and find a resolution to the problem. I say this because you have done all the recommended steps to increase intimacy (cooking, cleaning, romance etc) but to no avail. thus, she will only recognise the problem with the aid of a therapist.
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