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05 Jul 2005

possible infidelity possible action?
two years ago i had an 'sms' friendship with another guy - i am married. at the time we were going through a rough period and werent communicating much. it came out in the open, we decided to move on with our lives together. now my husband is having an sms friendship but is sms'ing goodnight, hiding his phone, but still acting loving etc. he doesnt know that i know about the sms'. i have believe that we now have a very warm, loving relationship and i dont know whether this is flattering for him (he is quite overweight and the girls dont come on to him much whereas i dont have too much trouble with the guys..), or whether this will develop further. i dont know whether to remain warm, positive and loving and hope this will blow over or whether to confront him and risk losing him by forcing to make an active choice. we have a young child and i am worried about the effect this may have. which course of action would be best?
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

He doesn't know that you know about his SMS relations ? Do you know if he knows about yours ? Why not consider marriage counselling, to work on things in the open and positively ? And think carefully over lulu's comments
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