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09 Jan 2013

So ready to Divorce
Hi all, I have finally decided that now this new year is the time to divorce my hubby. He had an affair with colleague 7 yrs ago, never forgive him, our marriage, everything has not been the same, I cant trust him again, I have asked him for a divorce many times over the past few years, but he just does not want to. I have given him so many chances already. He has no time for anyone but himself. He just started working after 3yrs. He was at home yes for 3yrs and did nothing, helped with nothing, he did not want to even have christmas lunch with me and our 2 kids. Should I just apply for divorce or tell him before. Because if I tell him he will take it as a joke and try everything to not let happen by being nice and all, and as soon as he thinks all is okay he goes back to normal.