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12 Aug 2008

Stubborn Husband
i have been married for a few months, and dated my hubby for 7 years befor we got married. things are pretty good in our relationship/marriage. he is very caring etc, and i don' t have any major issues except for the fact that when we have an argument about anything, he is never the 1st to try to resolve the matter or make up. i always have to be the one that makes the 1st move. this is really starting to frustrate me. any advice on how not to give in so easily....?
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

WHy do you expect that he MUST be the first to try to resolve the matter ? Does it matter so long as he is ready to make up and join you in sorting things out ? Its actually not resolving a problem if you see it as "giving in" to make the first move or to achieve a fair settlement / agreement between you.
Think of marriage counselling to iron out some of these matters together
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