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04 Feb 2013

TAKING A BREAK
WHEN I MOVED IN WITH MY BOYFRIEND IN JUNE LAST YEAR ,HE WAS TO PAY LOBOLA IN DECEMBER ,WHICH HE HASNT DONE.HE IS MESSY,LAZY,RUDE AND VERY ARROGANT,IF WE HAVE A DISGREEMENT HE WILL SHOUT AND TALK TO ME LIKE IM AM NOTHING EVEN IF WE ARE IN PUBLIC -I HAVE TRIED TO TALK TO HIM ABOUT HIS BEHAVIOUR HE DOESNT STOP INSTEAD HE WILL BE ANGRY FOR DAYS,NOT TALK TO ME OR HAVE SEX ,WE ONLY HAVE IT WHEN HE WANTS. I AM SIX MONTHS PREGNANT AND AM EMOTIONALY EXHAUSTED BECAUSE OF HIS BEHAVIOUR AND ATTITUDE.LAST NIGHT I TOLD HIM I NEED A BREAK FROM THIS RELATIONSHIP,HE ASKS HOW.WE ARE STAYING AT MY PLACE,DO I HAVE TO SPELL IT OUT TO HIM THAT HE MUST MOVE OUT??WHENEVER WE TALK MARRIAGE HE NOW IS UNSURE IF HE WANTS TO GET MARRIED OR WHAT.I FEEL WE NEED TO GO OUR SEPAREATE WAYS N DECIDE WHETHER WE CONTINUE DATING OR WE JUST RAISE THE CHILD,BECAUSE FOR NOW LIVING WITH HIM IS A NIGHTMARE
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