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11 Dec 2012

tired of all this!
I have lost the will to fight anymore in my relationship. We used to fight non stop and now Im just tired of it. Is this a phase or is it time to part. I realise I am not a priority in his life and he takes me for granted. I have raised this with him, but he sees me as to blame for everything. He blames my anxiety, my sense of expectency, my negativity, my....my....my....he takes accountabillity for nothing. I want to change this view of his, but the way I am doing it by having my opinion just leads to hectic fights. I am now staying quiet....he can do all the work. Is it time to call it quits?
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

What has been the point of continuing to labour at a relationship that includes non-stop fighting and seems to bring no joy ? He sounds highly negative and not prepared to take any responsibility for anything. You won't succeed in changing his attitude. Isn't it long past the time for you to move on, and seek a more fulfilling relationship ?
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