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02 Dec 2005

update on young man
(28/46) he came by yesterday to fetch some things he'd left here and then very coyly asked if we could revert back to how it was before we kissed. i was relieved in a way and said absolutely yes and didnt even ask him why. word is is that he may be back with his ex. there's a function we're all supposed to be at on saturday, i think he would like it if i wasnt there just from some subtle things he was saying, am in two minds now whether to go or not now. i think he would feel awkward as his ex is going to be there and he will look like a real cad in my eyes - or so he thinks - when i see him with her. jakes maybe you were right about older men...these youngsters are hard work ; )
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

Sounds like you're handling it gracefully ( typically ). You may choose not to go to the function, or maybe ask him directly how he feels about it, and see if you can go without him feeling bad ( especially if his bad feelings are due to him anticipating that you might feel bad !)
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