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03 Mar 2003

what do i do
was in love ,and he dies ,so get married to someone thought i can love ,but did not work out ,even though all 6 years ,could not love him .now meet a guy i am crazy about ,been seen him for about 8mnths,just found out he is still seen his kids mother.it hurts but i just can not let him go,please help
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

Dear Nikita, sounds like a situation in which you really need some personal counselling, to hlp you to work through these separate but overlapping issues. it sounds like you may have married on the rebound from your bereavement. Generally, we find that grief and bereavement are so unsettling that it's wise wherever possible to postpone major decisions like new job, new home, new relationship / marriage, for around a year afterwards, to be more sure that whatever decisions are made really represent what you want and need.
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