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20 Sep 2011

another touch
hi, i need some advice. i have come to a point where i think i am sick and i might need help. i have been married to my wife for almost 7 years now. when we were dating i was very possesive over her. i never liked it when she chatted to other guys or give other men hugs. i always wanted her to cover up her bits when we went out. in the last 3 years of our marriage i have changed. i am totally different. the complete opposite.

i now like her to dress sexy with her cleavage showing. i get turned on when men look at her body or try to chat her up. i have actually told her i am ok if another guys fondles her. i am not forcing her to do this, she finds it kinky and wants a stranger to have some fun with her.

i havent come across any of our friends who have done something like this. am i sick for wanting another man touching my wife?
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01 Jan 0001

Is it normal to want this? Some men have these fantasies about their partners, but this doesn't mean that they all act it out. You need to think through how you both will feel about this, and how you would feel afterward. Whilst it can result in distress and relationship breakdown for some, there are clearly some people who can manage this within their marriage/relationship. Remember to practice safe sex.
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