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06 Jan 2010

Attention men: Age and right position
Hi i' m lady of 25 yrs dating a guy who appear to be younger than me physically but he' s 26, we havn' t done anything yet but planning to do it soon and really love him. So i' m really wondering how he' ll think of me during intercourse as i have the stretch marks on my belly (caused by birth of my baby) and its not so tight and flat any more.

Another quest is how do i hold longer when i' m on top maybe 10 mins or longer without getting tired early. i know that my other relationship i used get tired early when i' m on top especially when i' m doin it fast, because that' s when my partner used to love it. please advice me and which postions men love or how can you make him enjoy it more?

Thanx in advance!
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01 Jan 0001

if you are concerned about your stomach, you can begin to acquaint him with it by asking you to tickle it or to rub cream on it. that way, he will be able to appreciate it beforehand. this will prevent any unwanted stress / anxiety during the first sexual intercourse.

additionally, sex is about communication, in this sense, each man is unique and has particular tastes. please rather explore each other's tastes, preferences, etc. this not only adds fun to to sex but also strengthens the relationship.
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