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07 Apr 2003

Can't use a Condom
Doc & friends please help out here...
I have this life threatening problem. Whenever I'm about to have sex,and I try and put a Condom on, my machine just go limp. I've tried over 20 (estimate) times to have sex with a condom but I was successful + - 3 times. The same thing keep happening. Do you know how embarassing this is with a new partner?
This has been happening for years Doc and I always have to convience a partner to go for a blood test (me included), use contraceptives and we have unprotected sex. But as you know doc this is a bit risky because if she cheats, I might be in the Stats.
After blood tests and there's no Condom, All go well,smoothly and ecstatic.
I'm still young and have no intention to commit but I do not have multiple partners. But if thing dont go well its the same process again:New G/friend, Blood test, go on the pill & risky sex.
I want to have protected sex just like the rest of you.
I really think its nothing psychological bcoz I believe in protected sex, believe there's AIDS and believe in Condoms and have no problems (financial andd psychological) that I know of. Either than ths I have normal erections.
What is wrong with me?
What can I do?
PLEASE HELP ME...IT MIGHT BE MY LIFE WE ARE TALKING ABOUT HERE...
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Sexy

01 Jan 0001

Ask your partner to wear a Female condom.
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