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14 Oct 2011

confused confused help HELP
i had an affair a few years ago cos of no sex in my marriage but we got back together and the sex was fantastic toys and the works
Bjs all the time even tried anal a few times she even did a few shows for me with a vibe

But recently she told me that she only did it to make me happy and hated it and now we back to square 1
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01 Jan 0001

It seems that you have different expectations with regard to sex. It also seems that it is sex the way you prefer, with little choice for her. Your coping of sexual challenges with an affair and the covert insinuation that you will have to do it again, is selfish and a health risk for you and your wife. A good sexual relationship is GIVE and take. What are you giving? She tried to make you happy - how did you make her happy? Go for counseling and meet her half way. Deidre - SASHA
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