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20 Sep 2011

need satisfaction
hello''s
I am a female, living with my man but i don''t seem to be sexually satisfied by him. I love him but everytime I fantaisze about a woman to reach orgasm. Does this make me bisexual or it''s just a fantasy? I would really like to have a woman though!
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01 Jan 0001

Many women have sexual fantasies about other women, and many of those women still identify as heterosexual and are comfortable with their sexuality. The feeling you are having about wanting to pursue your attractions is indeed worrying given that you are in a committed relationship; I would recommend that you do not pursue this at this stage but that you take some time to clarify what is going on for you. It may be, for example, that the fantasies provide an escape from some difficulties in your relationship, or it may be the emergence of your true sexual orientation. I would recommend that you get some support to do this - a counsellor would provide a non-judgemental space to guide and support you to consciously exlore your desires/needs more fully. For further information please consult SASHA’s website at www.sexualhealth.qw.co.za/dru. For referral to a professional in your vicinity, please send an email to helpline.sasha@gmail.com.
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