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15 Jan 2003

Oral sex - first time.
Hi doc. i'm in this relationship for two months now, and we have not made love yet, but it's very close :-} I'm sure. We have talked about do-like and dont-like things - sex, and we have done the handjob thing 2, and he have used his fingers to stimulate me 2! I loved our "sessoins" alot. Would it be unapropriate or out of line to have oral sex the first time. He told me that he would like to eat me, and I would not mind giving him a blowjob, but would it not be best to just have sex the first time, and then do the oral thing - u know, just to find our way first. This is both of us second sexual relationship, and we realy do like each other. We will be safe - do not worry! My only concern is the oral sex the first time having sex. I have not had oral sex before and know from your forum's archive how to go about giving a BJ, is there anything that I must do when receiving a MD?
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01 Jan 0001

Make sure that he has no fever blisters or sores around his mouth so that he can pass on an infection. Next, always give positive feed back, like "that feels good" or "I like it when you ...." Some women like to give pleasurbale moans, or some sort of message that she is having fun. We all like to get feedback on how we are doing.

Relax and enjoy the moment.
Dr Elna Mcintosh
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