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13 Oct 2008

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After my husband had a vasectomy I insisted that he used condoms that led to many fights so I started to aviod having sex but still did after him cmplaining so he wanted to divorce me cause of he couldn' t take it anymore so I told him we could try without the condoms but if he cum in me he will be back on the condoms and he didn' t dissapointed me yet. Now he tried to compromise by offering to give me an orgasm in return for him to be allowed.. so I pushed him away and now I' m back on trying to avoid it if possible. I don' t want him to threaten to divorce me again but if he wants to I won' t stop him, that just will prove he never love me but just wants his way then I' ll let him go. I don' t think he has deseases or unfaithful to me as he accuse me of thinking.
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01 Jan 0001

I have to admit to being a little confused about why you are insisting on condoms unless his vasectomy was less than 3 months ago? It is right that alternative contraceptives should be used for a little while after vasectomy to ensure that there is no reattachment of the tubes, or a mistake in surgery, but once the 'all clear' is given by the medical practitioner concerned that his sperm sample no longer contains sperm, you are safe from pregnancy...
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