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04 Nov 2011

Sexual Desire
I am a 40 yoa female dating a 50 yoa male. For the first time in my life my sexual desire is through the roof  however, my partner is not as excited as I am. He wants to limit the frequency of our love making. He does not appear to have an ED problem, what should I do?
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01 Jan 0001

IT is really difficult to provide you with an accurate answer of the reasons for that – psychological; age , medication or physical could be factors that plays a role. It would be helpful to discuss your partners needs; desires or lack thereof with him. It might be worth your while to seek the professional assistance of a psychologist working in the field of sexual health to explore your relationship dynamics and the how to incorporate the different sexual needs. The difference in sexual needs is not a problem, the challenge lies in finding a ways to integrate both’s needs in this relationship. For further information please consult SASHA’s website at For referral to a professional in your vicinity, please send an email to
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