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05 Apr 2004

Takes forever to orgasm!
Why does it take so much longer for me to orgasm than it does for my bf? It takes me such a long time! How can I remedy this?Sometimes it feels like Im wearing him out just so I get to orgasm (we go at it until both of us have climaxed). He wants to pleasure me, i dont wanna dissapoint him by not having an orgasm. please help.
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01 Jan 0001

The averaage male takes 3 minutes to orgasm and the average woman 14 minutes, now do the sums and see that somewhere along the way the two of you will miss each other. He needs to spend more time on foreplay to ensurre that you are ready for penetration.

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