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17 Nov 2011

What must I do?
So here it goes, Im a single guy in my late 20''s and live in a complex. I have this older lady(69) who invites me from time to time to have supper with her, she makes really nice food and Im not much of a cook. I offered to pay but she refuse to accept my money. Well she is still a good looking woman who keeps in shape and really a lovable person. Last night after supper, she took a quick shower and came out with a small towel wrapped around her walking pass me and to the TV unit. I was watching TV and she bent over to take something out by the TV unit and I could see everything. I was so turned on and couldn''t stop thinking about it. I never looked at her in this way before, probably because she could''ve been my granny but she looks better than most females in their 40''s. Do you guys think she was hinting something or am I reading to much into this? She emailed me this morning to say her back is sore and I immediately offered to massage her, so Im going over again tonight and actually hoping something will happen. Is this weird/sick or is it just normal to lust after a woman of that age?
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01 Jan 0001

Attraction and sexual behaviour will always be guided by culture ,societal norms and your background . How you feel or react is always in your domain . There is no right or wrong but what you feel . If you are attracted and comfortable then you have no problem . What her game is only you can gauge
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