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22 Feb 2010

What now?
My wife is not interested in sex. I have to beg for it. We have sex 3 times per year!!! I am fed up! I look after my body for her but she is just not interested. I know she''s not getting it elsewhere. She is overweight, don''t like excercising, isn''t sexy. I''ve tried but she doesn''t care. What now?
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sexologist

01 Jan 0001

Men and women have different physical and emotional needs when it comes to sex and making love and the challenge is to have both sides’ needs seen to and met otherwise resentment and anger steps in. Her neglecting of her body seems to be a concern to you and is having an impact on your relationship.

It is advisable that you seek professional assistance from a qualified psychologist specializing in sexual concerns to assist you in integrating and discussing all your frustrations. If she is not interested to seek help, nothing stops you to reach out and get some clarity for yourself.


You are also welcome to contact our helpline – 0860100262 where you could be assisted to get in touch with a practitioner as close a possible to you.

Furthermore you are welcome to visit the following website for any more sexual health information and sexual assignments that could be helpful: www.sexualhealth.co.za
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