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13 May 2004

What's the dealio?
I'm extremely uncomfortable with the female oral sex, and I think it's affecting the degree of pleassure I get from it!
I feel dirty and embarressed and always try to steer my guy's face away from that area. Barring that, I cover my face during the act. I haven't broached the subject for fear of offending him, but really need to know if this can be remedied. Am i the only one missing out on the lip-smacking fun?
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01 Jan 0001

I think the uncomforatbleness is with your own genitals and not with the oral sex. You have to make peace with your vulva. Go and get a mirror, sit down take a good look, see your own unique beauty, the colours, etc.
Not easy, but you have to start somewhere. Get a copy of "For yourself" by Lonnie Barbach.
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