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07 Jan 2003

Dear Doc or any of the guys out there...I have met a wonderful guy who I fell in love with the first time we met on a blind date. Can one fall in love the first time? I also need to know how does one really know if the guy likes/love/feel anything for you? does not say it often.
We are both divorced, he not so long, I am for quite a while, for the last three weeks I have not seen him, because he is underpressure having his children with him, they at this stage does not know about "us" . I agree that he must spent time with them, but they are 18 years old "twins"
I need time with him, I miss him so much, cause I am inlove with him, of which I told him.
He calls me most of the time early in the morning, 1h15 in the morning, 5h15 in the morning when he really misses me and needs to just hear my voice as he says. Well yes we have been having regular sex and I misses being with him, I do not know how much patience I will have, waiting, but I love this man!!! plse help with advise I am 49 and he 43.
I must say the time we had sex was wonderful!!!!
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01 Jan 0001

I wonder about men that will gladly have sex, but that will not acknowledge one in public. Your comment they don't know about "us", makes me wonder why this man is not prepared to say "hey world she's with me"!!
Unfortunately all that this forum can do is speculate and give you if's, but's and maybe's.
Why not write him a letter or e-mail, just like you wrote to us, and get him to answer the questions. That why you will get it from the "horses mouth" so to speak.
Good luck
Dr Elna McIntosh
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