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25 Jan 2006

Attractions for another girl
Ok, so i've always been completely devote to guys, but lately in gym class, i've been having CRAZY attractions for this girl. I don't really know what it is, she just really turns me on for some reason, and I can't even concentrate while she's around. Is it possible that i'm gay or bi? I also wonder if she likes me back....we've never really talked, but I catch glancing at me from time to time, and i'm sure she always sees me looking at her. She also came up next to me in gym the other day while we were waiting for the ball, and just kinda casually mentioned, "I think our team sucks." Maybe i'm just hopefully imagining things, but maybe not....Please help!!!
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teen expert

01 Jan 0001

Firstly you dont state your age. I ask this because at certain points in adolescence it is very typical for people to feel some sort of attraction to people of the same sex - a kind of "crush" that is actually non-sexual - you just reaaly really like that person or even want to be like them.

If you are gay or bi this means that you feel sexually attracted to someone of the same sex. This is something you will know yourself because when you fantasise about sex it will either be with a guy a girl or you might be attracted to both.

It is also important to point out that regardless of your sexuality this does not change the person you are. Your sexuality is one aspect of you, and is a positive thing regardless of orientation.

For futher advice on sexuality please post a question to our Gay, Lesbian & Bisexual expert here at Health24.

Best wishes
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