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10 Feb 2006

guys,who acually understands them???
i went outl the other night when some guy came over and started chatting to me. We clicked almost immediately,and had a good time. Later,we got chatting in his car,i only got home at 04:30 in the morning..and we still chatted,till 06:00. He kissed me goodbye and gave me his number. My problem is...do i contact him first,and perhaps come across as being "clingy", OR do i wait for him to contact me,in which case i might come across as not being interested??? it's reaaly tough. And even if i do contact him first,what do i say to him?? oh,and i met him 2 days ago.... some advice would be great. Thanks.
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01 Jan 0001

well he gave you the number which is a sign that its okay to use it. If you want to see him again, you can start by saying what a great time you had last time and if he would be interested in meeting again, and then await a response.

These days its not about coming across pushy if you are a female (although you dont say if you are or not) if you want to make contact - go for it! Relationships and getting them started always takes a risk, but if you dont take risks not much happens.

Best wishes
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