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27 May 2004

HELP Plz!!
HI i have a prob, there's this guy that i really like,his one of my bestfriend's friend and we have met but just a hi and your name is? That type of thing my friend told him i like him so he has been smsing me, now we both sms each other and he wants us to go out to get to know each other but

At first he said to me that he isn't looking 4 a relationship but that was a week and sumthing days ago but i really want to change his mind about that 'coz he's so cute and not like any other type of guy, what i'm trying to say is he wont force you to do something you dont want to do.

I also have a prob when i approach guys i freak out and i dont have anything to say. So can some-one plz plz help me and tell me what should i do.
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Teen expert
teen health expert

01 Jan 0001


I think you should meet up with him and start to get to know him. It will only be once you get to know one another that you will know if you want to have a relationship.

If he is not wanting a relationship right now you cannot force him into one, it just won't work out, so take your time and enjoy getting to know each other.

As for freaking out, having nerves on a date is very normal, especially the first date. Just be yourself. Before you go on the date think of possible things you could talk about such as interests, music, movies etc. If you think about some questions beforehand you won't freeze!! Also remember that it is a two-way thing and he will also have things to talk about (hopefully!) Its not just your responsibility to talk.

Think about conversations you have every day with people and dont try to be someone different just to impress - being you should be enough for him, and if not he doesn't deserve you!

Good luck!
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