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30 Apr 2004


i dont no what to do beacuse i go out with a 15 year old boy and i love him but he has asked my to have sex with him. i am 13 nearly 14 and dont no what to say or anything.

i love my boyfriend alot and dont want to hurt him .
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Teen expert
teen health expert

01 Jan 0001

Hi Sally,

it sounds as if you feel under pressure to have sex with your boyfriend. This is something you should do only when you feel ready, not when someone else wants you to. If you love each other and you want to wait then your boyfriend will respect that. If he doesn't then you have to ask yourself whether he really loves you or just wants sex? It is also important for you to know that you are below the age of consent for sex and your boyfriend could face prosecution for having sex with someone underage.

Only you will know when you feel ready, and until then saying no is the best policy.

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