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15 Jul 2005
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MASTURBATE RATHER THAN PENETRATING
My partner is 57, he prefers masturbating while playing with me or I must pull him till he comes. I love that too, but wonder why he prefers this rather than penetrating. Is he too small or I'm I too big. We have a very active sexual life. I'm 45
Hi
The key to this issue is communication. There are so many possibilities here. He may be more used to coming that way, it may offer very specific stimulation etc. Talk to him and find out why. Talk gently, not from a problem point of view. Perhaps open the discussion by saying that you enjoy the sex that you have and then ask your questions.
Jonti
The key to this issue is communication. There are so many possibilities here. He may be more used to coming that way, it may offer very specific stimulation etc. Talk to him and find out why. Talk gently, not from a problem point of view. Perhaps open the discussion by saying that you enjoy the sex that you have and then ask your questions.
Jonti
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