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02 Jan 2008

Confused lady
i am a lady aged 26 mother of two in a relationship of 07 months with a 29 yr old guy with no kids. we both wanted to settle down and get married, he recently poped the big question of marriage and i feel i dont want get married anymore i tried telling him how i feel it just broke his and my heart the i withdrawed we r now still together but i am not happy because we dont have the same goal anymore...how should i tell him i dont want to hurt his feelings howcan i make him understand.
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01 Jan 0001

Dear Mina
One should not enter into a marriage if you do not feel 100% committed to it. Tell him to give it more time, or see a pre-marriage counsellor at FAMSA to work out a solution that will fit you both. http://www.famsa.org.za/
Dr Bets
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