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Question
20 Jan 2004
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Performance anxiety???
I met my girlfriend around 6 months ago
The problem is that when we make love, I just cannot climax, In the beginning it wasnt so bad has a couple of times it worked like magic.... now nothing happens.
We've tried making love less often to see weather its an "exitment" issue, but to no avail. I just dont "cum".
It seems that the "feeling" just dissapears and then the erection dissapears too. Sometimes, i come close to ejaculating (and having an orgasm) and then that feeling dissapears completely (incl the orgasm)... I dont beleive i ejaculate (without feeling it either)
To put it simple, I dont ejaculate nor have an orgasm...
Is this called performance anxiety? and what can we do?
The problem is that when we make love, I just cannot climax, In the beginning it wasnt so bad has a couple of times it worked like magic.... now nothing happens.
We've tried making love less often to see weather its an "exitment" issue, but to no avail. I just dont "cum".
It seems that the "feeling" just dissapears and then the erection dissapears too. Sometimes, i come close to ejaculating (and having an orgasm) and then that feeling dissapears completely (incl the orgasm)... I dont beleive i ejaculate (without feeling it either)
To put it simple, I dont ejaculate nor have an orgasm...
Is this called performance anxiety? and what can we do?
CyberDoc
Karl, this doesn’t sound like performance anxiety to me. The best would be to see your doctor and have him make sure that it isn’t due to drugs you’re taking or a disease like diabetes or high blood pressure. Good luck.
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